I love everything about it. It is so Rhea and also so Dad and really reflects our playful sense of humor. I think my favorite part about it is Rhea's signature on the back, calling herself "daughter number 2". Since I was the first born and for many years was first child to grow very close to him many of his friends would always assume it was me when Dad introduced Rhea as his daughter (I lived in NYC for many years and visited less often, though spoke to Dad every week by phone). Rhea started saying, "Nope, I'm daughter number 2". She really owned it, making it sound as honorary as the silly "first born" title I had received.
My contribution to this was the photo of Dad holding the two Josslyn's. Dad's girlfriend Mary has two granddaughters. Josslyn and Grace. Our Josslyn was born on Grace's birthday and Rhea was unaware until after she has picked Josslyn as a name that not only did Mary's 2nd granddaughter bare the same name, but also the same unusual spelling! This picture was taken the day of our brother Eric, Dad's only son, funeral in late January 2008. We had all braved a snow storm to attend Eric's funeral and it was the only time in my then 30 years that I distinctly remember Dad wearing a dress shirt and tie. It was possibly the saddest thing I had ever seen, seeing my father dressed in black and grey standing in the snowy graveyard holding the flag the army had given Dad at my youngest siblings funeral. While he had changed back into more comfortable clothing, this picture was taken at Mary's sons home. Dad had both the Josslyn's on his lap and the two were hugging and pawing at ear other and Dad thought it was hilarious. We all did. Those children were a bright light in an otherwise bleak and heartbreaking week. While this picture isn't the best, it definitely captures Dad perfectly and is why Rhea picked it for her tribute. I am proud to be a part of it.









